Dancing Through Life's Journey: A Tribute to My Mentor and Friend, Victoria

Open Letter to Victoria Slager

Twelve years ago, a serendipitous encounter forever changed the course of my life. In the midst of uncertainty and self-doubt, someone saw in me what I couldn't see in myself. Little did I know, this person would become my guiding light, my mentor, and a cherished friend. This is a tribute to the incredible Victoria, who seamlessly transformed my life.

Victoria, you entered my world as a dance instructor, but your impact extended far beyond the dance studio walls. With a wisdom that seemed to transcend time, you became my mentor, guiding me through my years of high school and the formative experiences of my early 20s. Your presence was a beacon of stability as I navigated the complexities of love, worthiness, wellness, and the ever-evolving path of my career.

You witnessed my struggles and celebrated my triumphs. Through tears and laughter, you guided me and helped me embrace the beautiful chaos of personal growth. You taught me to see the goddess within myself, igniting a light of self-worth that continues to shine brightly.

Often, I likened you to a fairy godmother, an earthly angel sent to uplift and inspire. The ultimate compliment was bestowed upon me: “that if there is anyone who carries the spirit of Victoria, it’s Jayshree.” A statement that I will cherish and live up to forever.

Your influence stretched far and wide, touching the lives of many. As I reflect on the invaluable lessons you taught me, I am inspired to continue spreading joy like fairy dust, offering my heart to those in need, sharing my wisdom with those seeking guidance, and sharing my gifts to the world.

Though my heart aches with the weight of loss, I find comfort in knowing that your vibrant spirit danced through a life well-lived. The shock of your absence leaves me shattered, yet your voice whispers in the wind, reminding me to choose joy and savour the dance of life.

Victoria, I extend my deepest gratitude for gifting me over a decade of friendship and mentorship that transcended the ordinary. You taught me to embrace love, embody strength, and nurture an unwavering commitment to joy. Through the tears that flow freely, please know that my heart and mind are forever intertwined with gratitude and love.

As you ascend to a celestial dance floor, I imagine you twirling among the stars, your presence lighting up the heavens. Your legacy lives on, as I strive to embody the qualities you so effortlessly personified. I promise to continue your dance of spreading happiness and sharing the boundless love that you poured into my life.

Victoria, my mentor, my friend, my dance teacher, and my earth angel, as I bid you farewell, I do so with a heart overflowing with love. You will forever be etched in my soul.

From my Heart and my Mind, I thank you,

Jayshree

Jayshree Asnani